Hello and Welcome zorkfromplanetx!
It is great that you are interested in communism, however there exist some gross misunderstandings in your thought, which is not unexpected.
First to answer some of these questions.
What are the Communist views on war, violence, etc.?
This is a vague question dealing with vague concepts. Put short, we are neither pacifists nor warmongers. What we view as acceptable uses of violence depend upon the context i.e. defending the interests of the working class is acceptable violence. In regards to state terrorism, I believe that state terrorism is acceptable as a means of extraordinary defense, e.g. I find the Reign of Terror in the 1789 French Revolution and the Red Terror during the Russian Civil War as acceptable uses, they were used in defense of the revolutionary states against the counter-revolutionaries of their respective situations. World War I, current wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, etc. are naked imperial wars, this violence we find atrocious.
Everybody in a Communist gov. gets equal pay.
This is a myth. In a socialist society a general principle of everyone works according to ability and receives according to deed; in short the more labor you provide the more material benefits you receive. Communist society each receives according to need, to put simply.
I've been told that Communism and Theocracy are much the same.
Then you have been told wrong; niether socialist/communist society works like the way you have described. Your view is also self-contradictory: "chosen by a group of people" and "no one really gets to decide who's boss." A basic sketch of the form of gov't may be found in the YFIS FAQ:
"Free and democratic elections with right of recall of all officials.
No official must receive a higher wage than a skilled worker.
No standing army but the armed people.
Gradually, all the tasks of running the state should be carried out by the masses on a rotating basis. When everybody is a bureaucrat in turn, nobody is a bureaucrat. Or, as Lenin put it, "Any cook should be able to be prime minister."
http://www.newyouth.com/content/view/119/60/#workersdemocracyAll I can say is learn, learn, learn. I have been studying Marxism for years and feel I have only scratched a tiny part. In addition a good site for learning on the internet may be found here:
http://marxists.org/Intro. Page:
http://marxists.org/subject/students/index.htmAnd some good short introductory texts:
http://marxists.org/archive/lenin/works/1913/mar/x01.htmhttp://marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1847/11/prin-com.htm http://marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1848/communist-manifesto/index.htmAnalyses of current situations may be found here:
http://www.marxist.com/